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NORTON MELAVER

 
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SAVANNAH, GEORGIA - Norton Melaver, 84, of Savannah, Georgia, husband of Betty Stein Melaver, died Thursday evening, January 27, 2011, at his home.

He was born in Brooklyn, New York in 1926 and moved with his family to Savannah in 1940. After attending Savannah High School, he attended Armstrong State College for two years before matriculating at the University of Georgia, majoring in chemistry. Following a stint in the United States Navy in the medical corps, he returned to Savannah, where he joined his mother Annie Melaver in a local grocery store business called M & M Food Store. Over the ensuing 4 decades, he grew the business into M & M Supermarkets, a regional chain of 14 grocery stores employing over 750 people. He sold the business to Kroger in 1985 and oversaw the creation of a sustainable real-estate company, Melaver, Inc., still owned and managed by family members.

Beyond being an accomplished businessman, he was deeply involved in community affairs and served as president of the Jewish Educational Alliance, president of the Savannah Jewish Federation, Chairman of the United Way, Chairman of the Savannah Port Authority (predecessor to SEDA), and the Chairman of the Savannah/Hilton Head Airport Commission. He assisted in founding numerous visionary programs and foundations, including the first joint high school/business partnership program, founding the Armstrong Foundation, and Melaver Foundation. He was active on local boards such as Memorial Medical Center, First Union Bank, Carson Products, the Chatham-Effingham Regional Library, and Second Harvest Food Bank, as well as national boards such as CLAL, Florence Heller, and Council of Jewish Federations. Among his many accomplishments, he was most proud of being in the forefront of hiring African-Americans for managerial positions at M & M Supermarkets as well as being the catalyst for significant governance reform at Memorial Medical Center.

Surviving are his wife, Betty Stein Melaver; one son, Martin Melaver and his wife, Nirit; two daughters, Tovah Melaver and Ellen Melaver; one sister, Millicent Melaver, and four grandchildren, Dana Melaver, Alon Melaver, Ian Krupp and Aliyah Melaver.

The funeral service will be held at 12 noon Sunday at the graveside, Bonaventure Cemetery.

The family will sit Shiva at the home – Five Sweet Bay Lane, Savannah.

Remembrances:  Second Harvest Food Bank – 2501 East Presidents Street, Savannah, Georgia 31404 or the Live Oak Public Libraries Foundation – 2002 Bull Street, Savannah, Georgia 31401.




Online Condolences (16)add
... : Tom Kohler
Norton was a leader among leaders. Kindness, capability and curiosity mixed with a real love of Savannah and our people - all of our people. Can you remember a time in Savannah when Norton and the Melaver family were not heart felt, hands on, clear headed activist and leaders? This is a time of sadness and reflection for all of us.
January 29, 2011
... : Clyde and Avis Loper
Our thoughts and prayer are for Betty, Martin, Janet, Ellen and Millie and all of the Melaver family during this time of the loss of Norton.
I have many, many fond memories of our times together at M & M Super Markets. Norton was so truly a great man. I admire him for his leadership and friendliness.

Clyde Loper
January 29, 2011
... : Letty Shearer
Savannah has lost a wonderful and thoughtful leader. My heart is with you Betty, as you go through these very difficult days.
January 29, 2011
... : NED GAY
I got to know Norton through Rotary. His subtle sense of humor, quiet intellect and sincere caring for others - especially the less fortunate - made him a real asset to his community, friends and family. He will be missed by all who knew him. My sincere sympathy to Betty and family.
January 29, 2011
... : Robin Wheeler
So very sad to read of Mr. Melaver's passing. He was a fine gentleman and humanitarian. My thoughts and prayers are with Mrs. Betty and the Melaver family.

Shalom.
January 29, 2011
... : Rev. John G. Anderson
I knew Norton when he as on the Board of Memorial Health and I was chaplain there. I knew him to be a man of high principles and sterling integrity. He was courageous and stood by what he believed and fought for what he knew to be right. He contributed so much to our community. My thoughts and prayers are with you now. It was a joy to know him.
January 29, 2011
... : Geoffrey E. Gadsden
My prayers are with the entire family. Mr. Melaver will be truly missed!
January 29, 2011
... : Jacobo and Sheindl Merikansky Mexico City
Dear Betty. I'm so sorry to hear the news received. Our condolences to you Martín, Tovah, Ellen, and to Myldred. I only have good memories from you and Norton.
Baruch Dayan Emet
Jacobo Sheindl and Family from Mexico City




January 30, 2011
... : Billy Rauers
No couple in Savh has given more of themselves than Norton and Betty Melaver. Norton's example is a template for future civic leaders.
January 30, 2011
... : Jay and Dana Yeckley
Savannah has lost a great person and visionary - a kind, humble and thoughtful man. The Yiddish term, 'mensch' describes him perfectly. Our condolences to the entire Melaver family.
January 30, 2011
... : Dena and Jack Schultz
Should there be a single word that describes Norton we think that word would be MENCH!
Our thoughts and prayers go to Betty and all who loved Norton.
January 30, 2011
... : Melissa Sydeman
Aunt Betty, Ellen, Martin, Tovah & Aunt Millie,
I am so sorry, Uncle Norton was such a great man and remains an inspiration to us all. He had a fantastic and sly sense of humor, I so clearly remember the funny way he liked to tease. With all his accomplishments, remained an amazingly humble and approachable person. Aunt Betty & Ellen, I will never forget how kind you all were to me growing up, it meant so much to spend time with your wonderful family. You are all in my heart. Mom & Sumner send their love and sympathy as well.
Love,
Melissa
January 31, 2011
... : Wanda Horne
Bette so sorry to hear of Norton's passing. I have so many fond memories. My very first job was working at M&M supermarkets at the Abercorn store in the courtesy booth while going to college at Armstrong. Norton always had such a unique smile and compassion for others. We are all I am sure better for having known him. A truly wonderful man.
January 31, 2011
... : Don Harwood
Betty and Family,
Norton's passing was a sad day for all of us who knew and cared for him...and for all of Savannah.
My memories of you and Norton are all happy ones.
February 01, 2011
... : Tom and Connie Glaser
Betty,

We grieve with you and your family on the loss of Norton, who was a dear friend and hero to us and our children. We have many wonderful memories of our times together in Savannah and on our cruise together. We're so glad we had a chance to see him one last time and to visit with you this past fall.

Love, Tom and Connie Glaser
February 01, 2011
... : Morris Palefsky, Dallas, Texas
From my childhood days to present, I will always remember Mr. M's soft tone of kindness. My thoughts and condolences to Aunt Betty, Martin, Tovah, & Ellen from your Sylvan Drive neighbor!
February 04, 2011
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