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BENJAMIN EARL GAY

 
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SAVANNAH, GEORGIA - Benjamin Earl Gay, 84, of Savannah, Georgia, husband of Mildred “Millie” Lamm Gay, died Thursday, January 28, 2010, at his home.

Born in Wilson, North Carolina, he was preceded in death by his parents, John Franklin Gay, Jr. and Aline Baltzegar Gay. Mr. Gay was a deacon of Bull Street Baptist Church. He was a United States Army veteran having served in World War II. During his military service Mr. Gay was a Forward Observer with the 761st Field Artillery Battalion in the European Theater and with the Office of Strategic Services (now the CIA). For his service he was awarded two Battle Stars. Mr. Gay was a 1949 civil engineer graduate of N. C. State.

Mr. Gay moved to Savannah in 1951 to work with Union Camp Corp. He was later employed with a local engineering firm until 1958 when he co-founded the firm now known as Hussey, Gay, Bell & DeYoung, listed in the Engineering News Record’s Top 500 US Design Firms. Mr. Gay continued working with HGBD up until six months ago. He was a registered engineer in GA and NC and a registered surveyor in GA. Mr. Gay later formed and served as CEO of Coastal Telecom, Inc.

The Town of Thunderbolt proclaimed December 14, 2005 as “Benjamin Earl Gay Day” in the Town of Thunderbolt.

Mr. Gay served two terms as President of the Better Business Bureau of the Coastal Empire. In 2006 he was elected Chairman Emeritus of the BBB Southeast Atlantic, Inc. He was member and officer of several organizations, including the NC State Alumni Assoc, Savannah Jaycees, the business chapter of the John Birch Society and the Connecting Business Men to Christ (CBMC), the American Society of Civil Engineers, the Savannah Home Builders Association, GA Water Pollution Control and the GA Soil and Water Conservation Commission.

Surviving are his wife of 65 years, Mildred “Millie” Lamm Gay of Savannah, Georgia, and daughters, Carole Gay, Charlotte Hinely (Michael) and Dodie Gay.

The funeral service will be held at 2 o’clock Saturday in Bull Street Baptist Church.  Interment will be private.

The family will receive friends at the church after the service.

Remembrances: Hospice Savannah, Inc. or Bull Street Baptist Church.




Online Condolences (15)add
... : Wren Sanders (TW)
My prayers go to Millie and the girls for such a huge loss. Ben was my business partner, but more than that, he was my friend. I watched him use Coastal Telecom as a ministry to reach many, many people and point them in the right direction. The telecom and engineering industry benefited greatly because of Ben's presence. His loss will be felt across the entire country.
January 29, 2010
... : George Tabakian Jr.
My Father was employeed with HGB&Deyoung until his death in 1983. He always spke very highly of Ben and therest of the organization. I too knew Ben and also had high regards for him as an Engineer and as a person.

My sincere condolences go out to his family.

Jan 29, 2010

They are in our prayers.
January 29, 2010
... : Deborah Padilla
Dear Millie, Carole, Charlotte and Dodie,

My words cannot express my most sincere condolences on your loss. May it help in small way to know that others care and wish you healing on this sad loss you bear. Your memories are treasures that time cannot destroy.
January 29, 2010
... : Paula Sutherland - Tootle
Dodie -
I am sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers...

Paula Sutherland - Tootle
Aurora, Colorado
January 29, 2010
... : Ellen Hatcher
Dodie:
I am thinking of you and your Mom and sisters. It is never easy losing a parent. Prayers for you all.
Ellen
January 29, 2010
... : Lonnie Dye
Millie, Carole, Charlotte and Dodie
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we feel a great loss and share your sorrow. God bless and keep all of you in this time.

Lonnie and Donna Dye
January 29, 2010
... : Larry Drolet
I had the pleasure of working with Ben at HGBD. I will always remember his great sense of humor and what a fine man he was. He will be missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family
May God bless you
January 29, 2010
... : larry m stuber
Dodie, Ben and I were friends for 36 years beginning when I went to work at Hussey gay and bell in 1974. He and I stayed in touch over the years after I left HGB and not long ago we would cross paths at the candler well ness center alway having a few laughs and telling some jokes. My condolences to you and your family . Ben was one of about 75 people who came out back on June 14 2007 to support my announcement for public office with his enthusiasm and money.I was able to win with Ben's help . I have 3 great picture of Ben at that announcment ceremony so send me youe email and I will forward them to you.
January 29, 2010
... : Patsy
Well there's nothing I can say that you don't already know of how much I loved your Dad (and mom's Earl) - I guess you can say we had a special bond and I will never forget him or his family. Love, kindness, prayers and your friends will get you through these tough times and always remember to call your friends anytime day or night they will be there for you and your family. I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!
January 29, 2010
... : Nancy Wallace
Dodie and I go way, way back and Mr. Gay and the rest of the family are part of my family. I remember all the trips Mr. Gay took Dodie and I to the beach during the summers when we were young. The times I spent the night over, he always checked in on Dodie and I to see how we were doing. When he referred to me as family, it touched my heart deeply. He was always a calming and soothing presence. He is missed, but his presence is still with us. Love you Dodie, Mrs. G, Carole and Charlotte
January 29, 2010
... : Andreas F. Nissen
Ben has always been one of the men whom I have held in highest esteem. I have always known him to be a man of GoD and I Pray for his family and other friends as we all grieve his loss.
January 30, 2010
... : Bobbie (Patsy's sister)
May your hearts be filled with peace and love. Ms Millie, I'll see you soon. Carol, if I can help you, I'm always available. Love...
January 30, 2010
... : William Ccherry
I am deeply sorrowed over the loss of Ben. Ben loved liberty and freedom, under our Constitution. My work and association with him in The John Birch Society has made me a better person. We will all miss him very much. May God give us more men like Ben!
January 30, 2010
... : David & Halle Garfunkel
Dear Mrs. Gay, Carole, Charlotte and Dodie,

We were very sorry to hear of your loss. We have you all in our thoughts and prayers.
January 30, 2010
... : Don Kelly
I worked at HGBD in the early to mid 80's and had never met a more knowledgeable engineer. My condolences to the family and heartfelt prayers to each of you.
February 10, 2010
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